It is a disgrace to appear to be wrong. -.362
I don't like to apologize. -.326
I don't make excuses when I screw up. .319
I am right, others are wrong. -.305
Fairness is very important, even if it proves me wrong. .296
I prefer to hide my failures from others. -.289
I dislike people I can't control. -.272
I'm defensive. -.269
If someone is better than me at something, I'm fine letting them take the lead. .269
I always treat others as I would like to be treated. .257
I am too proud to admit my weaknesses. -.252
I try to forgive and forget. .249
I get what I want by controlling others. -.248
I respect the opinions of others. .244
I find that it takes a lot to make me feel angry at someone. .240
I would rather be too mean than too nice. -.238
I am tolerant to different ideas and beliefs. .236
If someone's argument appears to be strong and contradicting of what I believe, I will listen all the more carefully. .235
I am humble. .234
I express my thanks to those who care about me. .230
I don't like to be told to lighten up. -.224
I like people I can control. -.224
I am willing to forgive others. .223
I am not easily frustrated. .221
I am open to change. .220
I have a bad temper. -.220
The truth is more important than my image. .219
I am not good at working with a group.- .217
I am good at taking advice. .217
I will cheat in order to win. -.217
I look at the bright side of life. .217
Helping others is my oxygen. .215
I find appearing better than others rewarding. -.214
I have a short fuse. -.213
I either love people or hate people. -.212
I have no problem with the fact that some people are better than me. .209
I enjoy lying, duping others. -.209
I make people feel welcome. .207
If someone hurts me, I have a need to get revenge. -.205
I like to work behind the scenes without credit. .205
I accept people as they are. .204
Achievement is more important than material or financial reward. .204
I work hard. .204
I sympathize with others' feelings. .204
I am not easily frustrated. .201
When I'm not happy, I make changes to my life. .201
I tend to have an internal dislike/disdain for people that are more attractive than me. -.201
I value cooperation over competition. .201
I don't like to confess. -.200
I complain a lot. -.197
I am intensely possessive. -.197
I believe vengeance is sometimes necessary. -.196
I understand people who think differently. .195
I tend to reject any thought, however logical, that might lead to a disturbance of feeling. -.193
I have rage issues. -.193
No matter how good things are I find something th complain about. -.193
When I don't want to explain things I just say 'its complicated'. -.192
I find it very hard to lie. .191
I express my thanks to those who care about me. .190
I worry about what people think of me. -.190
I find it hard to forgive others. -.190
I disregard others and look down on them with an arrogant eye. -.189
I'd rather put problems/mistakes behind me, instead of taking responsibility for them / figuring out what caused them. -.189
I treat everyone the same. .188
I find appreciating others rewarding. .188
I don't know what will make me happy. -.188
I see flaws/weaknesses as opportunites for fixes/improvements. .185
I return extra change when a cashier makes a mistake. .184
I take more than I give. -.184
I don't like to be judged. -.183
If I feel bad in a relationship, I tend to think/feel it's the other person's fault. -.183
I am optimistic. .182
I like to antagonize others. -.182
When I want something, I want it right away. -.182
I am easy to satisfy. .181
When you are wronged, consider the viewpoint of the wrongdoer, and feel sorry for mankind. .181
I am relaxed most of the time. .180
I am not competitive. .179
It is important that I get my way. -.179
I avoid blame. -.179
I am good at resisting temptation. .179
No matter how much attention I get, it's never enough. -.178
I try to examine myself objectively. .178
I have a strong need for power. -.177
I find controlling others rewarding. -.176
I use anger to control people and situations. -.176
I have no need for power over others. .175
I'm jealous of people that I think are better than me. -.174
It is very important that I am liked and I will bend the truth if I have to to ensure that. -.174
I like to argue. -.173
I don't know my heart. -.173
When I want something from someone I can be very nice, when I don't I can be very mean. -.173
I am not easily bothered by things. .172
I enjoy duping/decieving people. -.175
I am faithful to friends. .175
I can't handle romantic rejection. -.173
I'm happy to occupy whatever position in society I best fit into regardless of whether it's prestigious. .173
I tend to act out when I am being ignored. -.156
I feel comfortable with myself. .171
I am self-centered. -.171
I believe that I am better than others. -.171
Optimism is my oxygen. .170
I am impatient. -.170
I think about the causes of my emotions. .169
I hold a grudge. -.169
I attack others. -.169
I ask for help. .169
I expect others to serve me without reciprocating. -.169
I only care about myself. -.168
Others should be made to pay for their stupidity. -.168
It is best to defeat your opponent without them knowing you've won. .168
I'm standoff-ish. -.166
I hate to judge others on how they look. .166
I am generally a very happy person. .166
I feel perfectly justified in getting my way, all the time. -.166
I have contempt for people that are inferior to me. -.166
I feel I must respect the decisions made by my group. .165
Finding out my thinking about something important is wrong unsettles me. -.165
I am concerned about others. .165
I like to rebel for the sake or rebellion. -.164
I meet my obligations. .164
I find it easy to manipulate others. -.163
I'm uncomfortable having friends that are better looking than me. -.163
I control others. -.163
When I'm depressed, I like to help people. .162
When I go out, I expect to be bought drinks by members of the opposite sex. -.161
What other people want is as important as what I want. .161
My need to be appreciated exceeds my capacity to appreciate others. -.161
I would say I'm more of a critic than a contributor. -.161
The most important thing to me is humility. .161
I always honor my promises to others. .160
I have a mature understanding of life. .160
I do not like to appear better than others. .160
It's all in what you and your heart tell you and how you percieve those messages. .160
I have a need to appear better than others. -.159
When I see a person I like connecting with someone else, it bothers me. -.159
If I'm not the best at something, I'm not interested in it. -.159
I remain calm under pressure. .157
Romantically, the burden is on the other person to prove they love me. -.157
If everyone I was attracted to, thought I was unattractive, I could live with that. .157
My enjoyment admiring things exceeds my desire to be admired. .157
I enjoy hurting others. -.157
I don't like taking orders. -.156
I focus entirely on getting attention. -.156
Internal beauty is more important than external beauty. .156
I feel hugely anxious and self-conscious all the time. -.156
I have kept people on the hook who I had no interest in romantically because I enjoyed the attention. -.155
Anything is possible. .155
I don't think that other people are 'better or worse' than me. .155
I like things I can control. -.154
I love to be complimented.- .154
I am controlling. -.153
I am willing to be misunderstood. .153
I am flexible. .153
I can make anybody believe anything I want them to. -.153
I like change.- -.153
My trajectory in life is downhill. -.152
Money can buy happiness. -.152
How I feel/think about myself does not rely on the opinions of others. .152
I am very suspicious of others. -.152
I am very sarcastic. -.152
I am more calm than worrying. .152
I am determined to have my own way. -.152
Achieving an aim or task gives me greater satisfaction than receiving praise or recognition. .152
I often eat too much. -.152
I would rather please myself than others.- .151
My own happiness and success are more important than the happiness and success of others.- .151
My self esteem is based on how attractive others think I am. -.150
I am simple. .150
I am self sufficient. .150
Integrity is more important than loyalty. .150
I an unhappy if I don't have the upper hand in Romantic relationships. -.150
I choose my words with care. .149
The best rewards are internal. .149
I prefer a basic/simple/spartan living space to a high-end/luxury one. .149
I am able to fit into any situation. .148
I ridicule others. -.148
Every day is a new adventure. .148
No matter how bad life gets, I'll always fight though it. .148
I radiate joy. .147
I get upset easily.- .147
I like to demean other people. -.147
I am a team player. .146
I search for and acknowledge any internal contradictions, then I amend my beliefs accordingly. .146
I am more likely to avoid feeling certain things that will conflict with how I think. -.146
Power for its own sake doesn't interest me. .146
I am hot-headed (overtly or covertly). -.146
I give more than I take. .145
I am argumentitive. -.145
I enjoy conflict. -.144
My image is more important than the truth. -.144
I have good self restraint. .144
I need the approval of others. -.143
I focus entirely on avoiding romantic relationship rejection. -.143
I get chores done right away. .143
I anticipate the needs of others. .142
I would rather be the appreciator than the appreciated romantically. .142
Happiness is about self improvement not ascending the social hierarchy. .142
I am aware at a detailed level of what is going on in my body including my emotional state. .142
I don't always do what I say I will do.- .142
I am open about myself to others. .142
I have a broad outlook on what is going on. .141
I get back at others. -.140
I have a good word for everyone. .140
People are so boring and predictable. -.140
I'm not interested in friendships I can't control. -.140
I'm generally attracted to someone very different from me. .140
I don't know who I am. -.140
I am very skilled at seduction. -.140
Doing volunteer work is a waste of time. -.139
The world should be as I want it to be. -.139
I put others first. .139
Criticism or scolding hurts me quite a bit. -.139
The definition of a good agreement is one that benefits me and the other party equally. .139
I am very considerate of my own feelings but not so considerate of other people's feelings. -.138
I take existing ideas and link them together in new and interesting ways. .138
Knowing who you are = knowing what makes you happy. .138
I can be callous. -.136
accommodating 00000 unaccommodating -.137
People I decieve are fools who should have known better. -.137
I am more calm than worrying. .136
I adapt easily to new situations. .136
I'm living in the best part of my life right now. .136
I am sure of my ground. .136
I can't determine whether I am good or bad. -.139
Physical appearance is everything. -.136
I take the initiative. -.135
Winning is very important to me. -.135
I focus entirely on getting my own way, helping myself. -.135
I believe that others have good intentions.- -.135
I always know how I feel. .134
If someone I romantically like says they may not be interested in me enough to pursue things, I move on. .134
I love my enemies. .134
I am dependable. .134
Mistakes are just a normal part of life. .133
I like to have power over others. -.133
I don't pretend to be more than I am. .133
It is important to give indecisive people even more space to make up their mind. .133
We are responsible for who we are. .133
My own happiness and success are more important than the happiness and success of others.- .133
I see beauty in things that others might not notice. .132
People tell me that I'm a good listener. .132
I am adaptable. .132
I am reliable. .132
I prefer things to stay as they are. -.131
What you leave behind is not what is engraved in stone monuments, but what is woven into the lives of others. .131
I believe in letting people be who they are, even if I really care about them, even if who they are is killing them. .131
I tend to avoid people that contradict my ideals. -.131
I am simple. .131
I get upset when people don't notice how I look when I go out in public. -.130
I focus more on what I like (what I find attractive) than being liked (being attractive to others). .130